I am fully aware that people don't want to hear this, but here it comes anyway. Bad things are going to happen to you. Yes, even after you become a Christian, things that hurt and things you don't want are going to occur in your life. With this knowledge, as believers and followers of Jesus Christ, we should make the conscious decision and effort to continue doing good even while we go through suffering.
"For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God's will, than for doing evil." ~ 1 Peter 3:17
Please don't misunderstand. Suffering is NOT a goal of mine. I would be 100% okay without enduring any form of suffering at any point in my life, but I want to be in God's will more than I want to be okay.
If being in God's will requires me to experience some pain, then that is exactly where I want to be.
"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose." ~ Romans 8:28
One reason that I'm both willing and able to accept my pain/suffering is because of God's promise in this verse. This verse is also one of the most misused verses in the Bible.
I have heard people explain through this verse by saying how lovely, wonderful, and peaceful Christians' lives are after becoming and follower. You don't have to look very far to find fellow Christians who are experiencing some brutal situations.
This verse is by no means promising believers an easy, pain free life.
Think of it like this:
God is the source of ALL good things. The problem is we tend to be both short and near sighted. We want good things to happen to us right here and right now. But, please consider God. He has no beginning nor end. Which means he is playing short term, mid-range, and the long term.
So if something comes at me, and it seems absolutely horrible and bad, I still believe that God is working it together for His ultimate good. This may not ben seen or felt immediately, and I will have to go through a struggle and pain. However, He has promised in Romans 8:28 these struggles, that seem so big to me, are small to Him and are working together in His master plan for good. And, if it is good for God, I can trust it is good for me.
For God to be willing to include me any part of His work is astonishing. If being in God's will means I need to suffer, then so be it. Because I know He will use my pain for His good and His glory.
"...Shall we receive good from God, and shall we not receive evil?" ~ Job 2:10
For starters: I am nothing special, I love Jesus and He is my Lord. I am the husband of a godly woman. She is working with me to raise a godly child. I am a teacher. I love to read and write.